Apr 9, 2012

Shoes and Men (Series)

Here I am again writing about my fabulous correlation between shoes and men. I might be the only one to believe in this comparison and some men might feel offended by my concept but to me shoes are far more than just footwear...






To me they are my passion, my weak point, my babies, my love, my dreams, my personal signature....

The last couple of times I've only given a general view on this subject but since summer is right at the corner. I felt it was time to talk about summer shoes and men...

When summer comes every women is anxious to wear sandals... to show those tanned legs with platforms, wedges or with those cute ballerinas... I know that during summer the last thing I want to worry is to have blisters on my feet and to walk weirdly because my flats are killing my feet...I just want to let my feet breathe and to feel sexy as well.... I do not want to feel a slave to my burning sandals or have sweaty feet in my flats...

If we compare uncomfortable and hurting summer shoes to men.... I would have to say it's the same thing...
In summer I don't want to feel down because some guy is hurting me... or to feel attached and anchored to a guy.... During summer women want to have fun (meaning enjoy the weather, go out with friends for drinks and late night walks) I'm not assuming that women want to be free of men and have sex with strangers in the club or have friends with benefits. Although I'm not discarding the fact that this might be the case for some women but nevertheless in general women just want to feel good.

When summer comes women want to feel great about themselves in every single way. Women are very complex and for us feeling great is not just about shopping or getting pampered but it's to truly feel balanced.

Basically, women don't enjoy painful sweaty shoes during summer; they want to be able to let their feet breathe and that also applies to their emotional state. They don't want to be hurt because some guy is being a jerk... or feel attached to psychotic jealous boyfriend.... or feel anchored to a boyfriend with mama's boy syndrome... Roller coasters are loads of fun during summer but trust me that the last thing a woman would want for her summer is to be trapped in an emotional roller coaster....

To me summer is a time to relax and get out of the house. Do some emotional and mental clean up... Personally, I hate to be tanning and to be thinking about some douche bag that ditched for a soccer game with his friends or to be worried about a guy that might be cheating... I rather be single during summer or to have someone that I can truly trust and knows me perfectly from head to toe...






So now girls!!! go shopping for a good pair of sandals and again please invest some money... buy styles that are basic with colors that you will use more than one season.... buy shoes that are quality.... that will let your feet breathe!!!

And guys!!! Please I beg you be more opened !!! Be a real man, a gentleman, be genuine and mature... being foolish and coward won't get you anywhere... if you have a girlfriend...think that both of you have to enjoy the summer but please communicate!!!

Enough talking now... :) Stay tuned for another chapter of shoes and men :)





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